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This is a really juicy episode where we jump into all topics from no-make up profile pictures to poor grammar and from being an adult when it comes to ghosting and the importance of staying safe.</p><p style="white-space:pre-wrap;"><br></p><p style="white-space:pre-wrap;">The article that inspired the episode <a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/you/article-6782929/Liz-Jones-single-ready-date-60.html"><span style="text-decoration:underline">https://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/you/article-6782929/Liz-Jones-single-ready-date-60.html</span></a> </p><p style="white-space:pre-wrap;">Hayley Quinn <a href="https://hayleyquinn.com/"><span style="text-decoration:underline">https://hayleyquinn.com/</span></a></p> </div> </div></div></div><div class="col sqs-col-3 span-3"><div class="sqs-block spacer-block sqs-block-spacer sized vsize-1" data-block-type="21" id="block-24a8b7c1c310f355cb21"><div class="sqs-block-content"> </div></div></div></div></div> <div class="Blog-meta BlogItem-meta"> <!-- 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